I've yet to meet anyone who has it all figured out. We all stumble along; sometimes with a confident step, sometimes groping like blind men. Just trying to figure out how to live this life we've been given and how to live it well.
There is a scripture in James 1:5 "if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him." It doesn't say, He will give to some, but to ALL.
The kicker is, you have to:
It's seems there is insight all around us. My garden, is full of it.
For example, things are going to change.
If your situation is bad, hang in there and if your situation is good, be prepared!
When we first moved into our house we had this lovely pond in the back yard with a little fountain
It was a lovely feature and I loved the sound of the water. But it was a stinker (literally) to clean each year and I can't tell you how many dead little birds or moles I had to fish out that had slipped in to their demise.
So eventually we filled in the pond and inserted a fountain instead.
The birds can now safely stop in for a quick shower and I still have a water feature.
You will lose things that you love and you will gain things that you love.
Last year I had a bumper crop of Bee balm
I only have a few stragglers coming up this year but that gave me room invite some new comers.
This is Chad:
Chad the Cherub sat propped up on the side of my pond faithfully pouring water from his little barrel. But the birds thought Chad had a great head to land on and poor Chad often found himself floating face first in the pond. Eventually he took one too many dives and he was injured beyond repair. I really liked Chad!
There are people who I miss a lot. Like my sister Heidi, or Greg, both who never saw the age of 30. There are people who have moved on or moved away. I miss them too. Loss is a part of life, but so is new Life.
Pruning is necessary! Nature is always pushing, pushing, pushing to take over and I'm always pruning, pruning, pruning to take it back. You will be pruned, and it will hurt but the rewards are worth it.
Life is full of seasons, not just the sunny summer but winter:
And in each one there are new moments of joy, growth and insight.
If you are trying to understand something, like how to raise that strong willed child or to let go or hang on, or whatever, don't be afraid to ask for wisdom. It is there for the taking, probably right in your own back yard.